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Jesus on Trial

Posted on Apr 6, 2023 in Family Faith Talks |

For younger children, consider reading “Everyone Leaves Jesus” in The Biggest Story Bible Storybook (pages 412–17).

Reflect

In these two scenes surrounding Jesus’s arrest and trial, we find an important contrast. Jesus speaks boldly when confronted about his identity. He confesses that he is the Messiah, the Son of God and Son of Man, and that the high priest himself will one day witness his authority and power. Peter, on the other hand, denies Jesus and his own identity as a disciple of Jesus. Jesus stands boldly before the power of the Jewish religious leaders. Peter caves to the pressure of a servant girl. In this contrast, we see our hope. Jesus stands boldly where all others fall away. Our hope is not in what we can do for Jesus, but in what he has done for us.

Reflection Questions:

1. What do these verses teach us about Jesus?

2. What do they teach us about our response to Jesus?

Listen to: “Hallelujah, What a Savior!” (Chris Rice)

Pray

Jesus, you are the Son of God and Son of Man. Please forgive us for when we have denied you in our words and in our lives. Forgive us for when we have given in to fear and remained silent when we should have confessed your Name. Thank you for standing boldly when all others ran away. Help us to know more of your power and submit daily to your authority. Amen.

Sorrow in the Garden

Posted on Apr 5, 2023 in Family Faith Talks |

Read: Mark 14:32–52

For younger children, consider reading, “A Dark Night in the Garden” in The Jesus Storybook Bible (pages 294–301).

Reflect

In the garden, Jesus experienced intense sorrow, immense emotional pain. His grief drives him to his Father in prayer. His main request is that if it is possible the Father would take away the cup he is about to drink. What is this cup? The Old Testament helps us here. We read in Isaiah 51:17 and other places about “the cup of God’s wrath” that he pours out upon the wicked. That’s the cup Jesus must drink. He will experience the torment of God’s wrath, the pain of relational distance from his Father. He will experience his Father’s frown so that we might know the Father’s smile. This is what Jesus endured for you. There was no other way.

Reflection Questions:

1. What do these verses teach us about Jesus?

2. What do they teach us about our response to Jesus?

Listen to: “See the Destined Day Arise” (Kenwood Music)

Pray

Jesus, our Lord, you were rejected by men, a man of sorrows and acquainted with grief. You have borne our griefs and carried our sorrows. You were pierced for our sins, crushed for our iniquities. Words cannot capture the praise that is due to you. But we humbly thank you and give you all our allegiance and faith. Fill us with your Spirit today that we might walk in the newness of life you purchased for us when you drained the cup of your Father’s wrath for us. Amen. (Isa 53:3-6).

The Last Supper

Posted on Apr 4, 2023 in Family Faith Talks |

Read: Mark 14:22–31

For younger children, consider reading, “A Meal for the Ages” in The Biggest Story Bible Storybook (pages 408–411).

Reflect

As Jesus eats his final meal with the disciples before the cross, he uses the bread and the cup of the Passover meal as signs that signify what his death means. His body will be broken, given up for his people. His blood will be poured out for many and will ratify the new covenant between God and his people (Heb 8). Jesus’s body was broken, his blood poured out. And now through faith in him, we are heirs of promises of glory and hope beyond imagination. Come to Jesus today and remember his broken body and blood poured out for you and walk in renewed faith and hope in him.

Reflection Questions:

1. What do these verses teach us about Jesus?

2. What do they teach us about our response to Jesus?

Listen to: “Behold the Lamb (Communion Hymn)” (Keith & Kristyn Getty)

Pray

Gracious Lord and Father, we praise and thank you for sending your Son for us, to be broken and bloodied on the cross for our salvation. Help us to remember his broken body and blood poured out that we might be strengthened in our experience of your abundant mercy. We ask that you would help us to walk in a renewed faith and hope in Jesus today and his sacrifice. Amen.

Treasure the Passover Lamb

Posted on Apr 3, 2023 in Family Faith Talks |

It is Holy Week or Passion Week, a time when we remember Jesus’ final week when he went to cross, the grave, and rose again on that first Easter Sunday. For our Faith Talk Guide this week, we will actually be posting shorter daily guides throughout the week to help us reflect on Jesus’ life, death, and resurrection. So, if you are not already engaged in a Passion Week devotional with your family or as an individual, we invite you to join us in using these guides!

Each will include a reading from Mark 14–16, a reading from a children’s Bible, a reflection, and a prayer. We hope and pray that these aid you in remembering our Lord’s life, death, and resurrection this week!

Read: Mark 14:1–21

For younger children consider reading, “A Woman to Be Remembered” in The Biggest Story Bible Storybook (pages 404-407).

Reflect

Jesus is our Passover Lamb. He came to give his life as a sacrifice for our sin that we might know God’s forgiveness. What is the proper response to the reality of who Jesus is? We get a glimpse of a right response in the woman who pours her expensive perfume upon Jesus’s head. She demonstrates with her lavish action that she values Jesus above all. As we go about this week and our lives, let us treasure Jesus, our Lord and Passover Lamb, above all.

Reflection Questions:

1. What do these verses teach us about Jesus?

2. What do they teach us about our response to Jesus?

Listen to: “Jesus, There’s No One Like You” (Sovereign Grace Music)

Pray

Lord, we pray that our love for Jesus would abound more and more as we experience his love afresh today. He is our Passover Lamb, the Lamb who was slain and is worthy of all glory and praise. We ask that you would so move our hearts to treasure him above all, that we would count all other things as loss compared to the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus our Lord. Help us to live this way for your glory and praise. Amen. (Phil 1:9; 3:8; Rev 5:12).

Hope for Exiles

Posted on Mar 27, 2023 in Family Faith Talks |

Read Together: Isaiah 43:1–7

As followers of Jesus, there is a real sense in which we are “strangers and exiles” in this world (1 Pet 2:11). On Sunday, we looked at Jeremiah 31:2–22 where we saw God’s words of hope for Israel, and for us, as we live as pilgrims in this world. Isaiah 43 is another passage of hope written to exiles that we too can look to for hope for our present and our eternal future.

In Isaiah 43, the Lord declares to his people in exile, “Fear not!” God’s people in exile do not need to live in fear, and the foundation for this courage and fearlessness is rooted in who God is and what God promises to do. The Lord describes himself in these verses as Israel’s Creator, God, and Savior. He is “the Holy One of Israel,” a title of both transcendence (the Holy One) and closeness (of Israel).

As their holy Creator and Savior, he has redeemed them. He knows them through and through, and they are his. Even though they are in the wilderness and may pass through water and fire, he will be with them to guard them. The Lord declares that he is with his people and loves them, and so he will act on behalf of his people in delivering them from the nations.

As we live as “strangers and exiles” on this earth, these promises are ours in Christ Jesus. We don’t need to live in fear in this wilderness. The Lord is our Maker and Redeemer. He is forever present, and he loves us with an unfailing love. So, as those called by his Name, created by him, we can live for chief purpose he made us: his glory (43:7). Our posture as exiles, then, should be one of hopeful, active waiting for our Maker and Redeemer to gather his people and make all things new.

Discussion Questions

What does it mean that followers of Jesus are “strangers and exiles” in this world?
According to Isaiah 43, why don’t God’s people need to live in fear?
How does our identity as “strangers and exiles” affect how we live in this world?

Ideas for Younger Kids

Read “Operation ‘No More Tears!’” in The Jesus Storybook Bible (pages 144–51). Talk with your kids about the situation of Isaiah and Jeremiah (Israel in exile) and how we too are “exiles”, waiting for Jesus to come and take us home. And in this situation, God shows us great love and kindness.
Alternatively, read Exodus 16:13–21 (the story of God providing manna to his people in the wilderness). Discuss the similarities between our situation and Israel’s, and about how God provides for us as we live as “exiles” on this earth.

Memorization: “Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name, you are mine.” (Isa 43:1)

Song: Listen to “Almost Home” (Matt Papa & Matt Boswell). Kids might enjoy “Fear Not” by Ellie Holcomb.

Pray Together

Praise God that that he is the Holy One who made all things and who will make all things new.
Confess before God that we are broken, sinful people living in a broken sinful world. We struggle with doubts and fears that are rooted in unbelief.
Give thanks to God that he meets us in this wilderness and gives us renewed faith, hope, love, and courage.
Pray that God would give us a deep faith and courage each day as we face this “short, uncertain earthly life and pilgrimage” (Martyn Lloyd-Jones).

Go Together

Write out or print Isaiah 43:1 and put it in a prominent place in your home. This week, take time to remember that we can live in courage, without fear, even in the wilderness of this life because God is with us, he loves us, and he has given us great hope for our eternal future in Jesus.

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Ministry and Growth

Posted on Mar 20, 2023 in Family Faith Talks |

Read Together: 1 Corinthians 3:1–9

Ministry comes with certain challenges, as Pastor Jerry reminded us on Sunday. It challenges our pride and self-sufficiency as it requires us to recognize that ministry is not about us and that the results are ultimately not ours to manipulate, but God’s to produce. Amid church conflict, the apostle Paul had to remind the Corinthians of these truths in 1 Corinthians 3.

The Corinthian church was struggling with internal divisions that centered around different kinds of leadership and teaching styles. Some claimed to follow Paul while others looked to Apollos as their favorite leader and teacher. Paul had founded the church. Apollos had pastored it for a time. Now the church was divided into groups based on their preferred personality.

But Paul sets them straight: ministry is not about personality cults. Leaders in the church are servants. Gospel ministry is bigger than Paul or Apollos. It’s about Jesus and serving him. It’s not about the leaders themselves because it is God who gives the growth. Paul planted, Apollos watered, but God gave the growth.

Ministry is like farming or gardening. A gardener can plant seeds and water them, but he cannot make the plant itself grow. God, the Creator, is responsible for the growth of plants. In the same way, preachers, missionaries, and Bible study leaders can proclaim the gospel and speak truth, but God alone can cause the gospel seed to sprout and grow and bear fruit. Ministry is not about any one personality or preacher because none of us can manipulate real growth. We faithfully tend “God’s field,” and we leave the results in the hands of God.

Discussion Questions

Why is it wrong to make ministry about one certain leader and their personality?
What is the picture Paul uses to describe ministry and what does it teach us about ministry?
How does the truth that “God gives the growth” motivate us to do ministry?

Ideas for Younger Kids

Read Mark 4:26–29 with your children. This is a short parable about the growth of the kingdom of God. God’s kingdom grows through God’s power.
Use this parable as a starting point to talk about the picture of a garden or field. Consider having young kids draw a picture or color a picture of a garden or field. Talk about how serving God can be like tending a garden. When we tell other people about Jesus, we can’t make that person grow to know Jesus. But God can. We should focus on planting and watering and entrust the growth to God. Just like God makes plants grow, he makes people grow to know and follow him.

Memorization: “I planted, Apollos watered, but God gave the growth.” (1 Cor 3:6)

Song: Listen to “Press On” (Keith & Kristyn Getty). “Now let the Word be scattered like the seed on the soil/ Day by day/ Watch it grow in His care.” Encouragement to press on in faithfulness to the Lord as we live for him and share his truth with others.

Pray Together

Praise God that he is the One who gives growth in our lives and in the lives of those we minister to.
Confess before God that we tend to make too much of ourselves or certain leaders and try to manipulate results instead of entrusting them to God.
Give thanks to God that his Word always accomplishes the purpose he has for it—it never returns to him void (Isaiah 55:10–11).
Pray that God would grow us and help us to trust him to give growth to those we serve and speak the truth to.

Go Together

Think about what ministries you are involved in. Write these down. This can include your ministry as a parent to disciple your children, church ministries, and your witness to family, neighbors, coworkers, classmates, etc. Entrust these to the Lord and pray that you would be faithful in them and that God would give growth to those you minister to.
Ask yourselves: Are there any other ministry opportunities that God is calling us to participate in as a family or individuals? Who can we minister to this week and share love and truth with?

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Jars of Clay

Posted on Mar 13, 2023 in Family Faith Talks |

Read Together: 2 Corinthians 4

On Sunday, we began to look at the calling of the twelve disciples and Jesus’ first mission for them. Pastor Jerry drew our attention to the fact that these disciples were twelve ordinary, common men. They were unproven, untrained, and unremarkable. Yet, Jesus chose them as his first messengers to proclaim the kingdom.

In 2 Corinthians 4:7, Paul makes a similar point about his own ministry. He is a just a clay jar that contains the treasure of the gospel. He is just a weak, unremarkable, ordinary human being who has been gripped by knowing God’s glory revealed in the good news about Jesus. And God’s purpose in using clay jars like Paul is to show that the awesome power of the gospel comes from God alone.

Like Paul, we are weak vessels of the glorious news of Jesus’ victory over sin and death. As we carry out our mission, we must remember that the power is in the message, not the messenger. God uses ordinary, unremarkable people like us to showcase his power in the face of worldly pride.

So, we shouldn’t put our trust in our ability to make the gospel attractive. We shouldn’t lose heart when the world rejects us. We are simply clay jars, ordinary and fragile. But the gospel is a treasure worth more than anything in the world. So, while our outer self wastes away, our inner self is renewed each day in the hope of glory that we have tasted and seen in the gospel.

Discussion Questions

What does Paul mean by describing himself and his ministry partners as “jars of clay”?
What is the “treasure” that Paul says is in these clay jars?
Why does God use ordinary, broken people like us to share his message? How does this give us courage and hope as we carry out the mission Jesus has given us?

Ideas for Younger Kids

Read “The Fight of Gideon and the Flight of Midian” in The Biggest Story Bible Storybook (pages 124–27). Discuss with your children how God uses Gideon, an unlikely leader, to lead a puny army to rescue God’s people from their enemies. This story reveals how God often works: he chooses the weak to shame the strong and to show that it is only his power that wins the victory.

Memorization: “But we have this treasure in jars of clay, to show that the surpassing power belongs to God and not to us.” (2 Corinthians 4:7)

Song: Listen to “All Glory Be to Christ” (Redeemer Worship). We are jars of clay filled with the great treasure of knowing God—all glory be to Christ!

Pray Together

Praise God that he is the almighty Lord of all!
Confess before God that we are weak, frail, sinful, and broken. We often put too much confidence in ourselves and not the power of God and his Word. Or we view our weakness as a hindrance to God’s power and not the channel.
Give thanks to God that he uses jars of clay like us to make known the glorious news about Jesus.
Pray that God would give us courage and confidence to share his truth despite our weaknesses.

Go Together

Near the end of his sermon, Pastor Jerry asked us: Have you given up sharing the gospel? Ask yourselves that question and consider why we sometimes neglect to share the good news with those around us. Commit together to start a gospel conversation with someone this week, relying not on your own cleverness or ability but the power of God manifested even through your weakness.

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Servants and Stewards

Posted on Mar 6, 2023 in Family Faith Talks |

Read Together: Matthew 25:14–30

On Sunday, Bryan challenged us to live with joyful generosity as those who live in light of eternity. When we stand before God one day, he will ask us, “What did you do with what I gave you?” Jesus himself illustrated this reality with a parable in Matthew 25:14–30.

In this story, a man gives his servants differing amounts of talents (i.e., money) to manage while he is away on a journey. Two servants use this wealth to create more wealth, while another simply buries his money in the ground. The first two servants are praised and rewarded, but the third servant is condemned by his lazy failure to use what he had been given for the sake of his master.

The main point of this parable has to do with how Christ’s disciples are to live while they await his second coming. The talents in the parable represent the different opportunities, responsibilities, vocations, and even the wealth God has given each of us. We are not to live in lazy self-service or fear of failure but boldly use what God has given us for his glory and the good of others.

All that we have comes from God—all our opportunities, responsibilities, wealth, time, and giftings. How are you using these things? Do you spend most of your energy just trying not to mess up with what you have? Or are you using these things faithfully for God? As pastor and author Greg Gilbert put it in a message on this parable (which is well worth listening to): “Being a Christian isn’t just a matter of avoiding doing something wrong. It’s a matter of burning up our lives in service to our King.”

Discussion Questions

What is the main point of this parable?
What are some of the opportunities and responsibilities God has given you? How are you currently using these?
What are some ways you can use your God-given opportunities, responsibilities, wealth, time, and giftings in bold service to King Jesus?

Ideas for Younger Kids

Read this parable together with your children. Consider summarizing or re-telling portions of it if needed. Emphasize how all that we have is a gift from God that he has given us to honor him and love others. Ask your children about what God has given them and talk about how we might use these things for the service of our King.

Memorization: “His master said to him, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant. You have been faithful over a little; I will set you over much. Enter into the joy of your master.’” (Matthew 25:21)

Song: Listen to “My Jesus, I Love Thee” (TGC Live, feat. Shane & Shane, Davy Flowers). Genuine service to King Jesus flows from a deep love for Jesus!

Pray Together

Praise God that he is Lord and King over all and he has given us so many good things.
Confess before God that we often use what he has given us with selfishness and fear.
Give thanks to God that through Jesus we are forgiven and given new hearts that begin to long to love and serve our King more.
Pray that God would help us use all that he has given us to serve him and love others.

Go Together

Return to Question #3 above and choose one practical way to use what God has given you as a family or individuals to serve him this week.

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Decisions & Godly Counsel

Posted on Feb 27, 2023 in Family Faith Talks |

Read Together: Numbers 13:25–14:10

This Sunday, Pastor Jerry reminded us that knowing God’s will can be a group effort. Knowing God’s will is not something we simply lock ourselves in the dark to discover alone. There is no Bible verse that backs the common cultural assumption that our decisions are exclusively personal. In fact, whether we realize it or not, all of our decisions are influenced to a degree by other people.

We see several examples in Scripture of people on the brink of a decision receiving different kinds of counsel. In Numbers 13–14, Israel is on the verge of entering the Promised Land. They hear the report of the twelve spies and receive two different kinds of counsel. On one side, ten of the spies offer counsel rooted in unbelief. On the other, Caleb and Joshua offer counsel rooted in deep faith in God’s promises. The people hear both, and they decide to act in unbelief and rebellion against the Lord.

We all have voices in our lives who influence our decisions. Media and social media speak into our lives constantly and shape our decisions in ways we often don’t even realize. Family and friends offer advice. Coworkers and neighbors share their two cents. The question is: Who are we listening to?

Making decisions should be a group effort in the sense that we seek the wise, godly counsel of God’s people and commit to be shaped by God’s Word in the context of the community of the church. We need each other. We need to commit to hear the counsel of those who speak out of deep trust in God’s truth and God’s promises.

Discussion Questions

How can knowing God’s will be a group effort?
What was the counsel of Caleb and Joshua rooted in (see Num 14:7–9)? What does this teach us about where we should be seeking advice and counsel?
What are some of the voices that influence our decisions? How can we be more intentional about the voices shaping our decision-making?

Ideas for Younger Kids

Read “Big People, Little Faith” in The Biggest Story Bible Storybook (pages 104–07). Discuss with your children the importance of seeking advice from faithful followers of Jesus who trust God’s Word.

Memorization: “Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm.” (Proverbs 13:20)

Song: Listen to “Savior, Like a Shepherd Lead Us” (Hymns of Grace). This hymn reflects what our heart should be as we seek God’s will together: that Jesus would lead us and help us to do his will.

Pray Together

Praise God that he is all-wise and leads and directs his people.
Confess before God that our decisions are sometimes shaped more by unbelief and the fear of man than by faith and the fear of God.
Give thanks to God for his church and godly people in our lives who help us make decisions out of faith and not fear.
Pray that God would help us to be shaped by the godly community of his people as we make decisions.

Go Together

Take stock of the voices speaking into your life that may be shaping your decision-making by shaping what you value, what you trust, what you fear, and so on. Write some of these things down and discuss them together.
If you are in the process of making a decision about something in your life, consider bringing it this week before another believer you trust and who is grounded in their faith and seeking their counsel.
Make the simple commitment or recommitment to make gathering with God’s people a major priority in your life and in your weekly rhythms.

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God’s Character & God’s Will

Posted on Feb 20, 2023 in Family Faith Talks |

Read Together: Jonah 1

As we saw on Sunday morning, knowing God’s will for our lives involves obedience to God’s Word and delight in God’s character. Sometimes, however, there is a gap between what we know and what we actually desire to do. Jonah’s story provides a prime example of someone who knew God’s will, and yet went the other direction.

God tells Jonah: Go to Nineveh and preach against it. But Jonah runs in the other direction away from God’s will. Why? Jonah tells God in Jonah 4:2. He ran because he wasn’t happy about God’s character. He knew who God had revealed himself to be: a God of compassion and mercy (Exod 34:6). And he didn’t want that for the Ninevites, the enemy of his people. Jonah didn’t delight himself in the Lord, and so his desires ran contrary to the Lord’s will.

The story of Jonah should drive us to ask ourselves some important questions. Are we looking to obey only the aspects of God’s will we are comfortable with? Are we really delighting in all of who God is or just the parts of his character that we like or that benefit us? We will be better equipped to make godly decisions if we are people who delight in God through Jesus and commit to obey his Word even when it is uncomfortable.

Discussion Questions

Read Jonah 4:2. Why did Jonah try to run away from God and his will?
How are God’s character (who he is) and God’s will connected?
What are some aspects of God’s character we might be uncomfortable with? How might this tempt us to disobey God’s Word?

Ideas for Younger Kids

Read “Big Fish, Bigger Mercy” in The Biggest Story Bible Storybook (pages 264–69). Discuss Jonah’s disobedience and the reason behind it. Emphasize that we obey God most fully when we love who he is.

Memorization: “The LORD passed before him and proclaimed, “The LORD, the LORD, a God merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and abounding in steadfast love and faithfulness,” (Exodus 34:6).

Song: Listen to “Only a Holy God” (CityAlight). This song reminds us of God’s character as the holy God and its implications for us. Do we delight in God’s holiness?

Pray Together

Praise God that he is the holy God of mercy and unfailing love!
Confess before God that we are often selective in our delight in him and in our obedience to his will.
Give thanks to God for his Son, Jesus, the prophet greater than Jonah who obeyed the Father’s will perfectly and was in the belly of the earth for three days for our salvation.
Pray that God would open our eyes to the beauty of who he is, that we would delight in him and obey his Word.

Go Together

Write down three attributes of God. For each attribute, write down a corresponding point of what this means for our relationship with God and what it means for his will for our lives. For example, God is love, and this means that he loves us and we are called to love others.
Return to Question #3 above and consider if there are any related aspects of God’s character and will you just discussed that make you a little uncomfortable and even cause you to disobey God’s will. Be honest with each other: are their aspects of God’s character and his commands that you don’t really like? How can you grow to delight in all of who God is? Discuss one practical thing you can do this week to grow in your delight in God.

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